How can you work with Stan and Tracey?
Video Course
Explore how to fight well and make mutually-beneficial decisions in Stan and Tracey’s short online course, The Win-Win Couple.
Online Retreat
Work with Stan and Tracey in a small group to improve your relationship over the course of 8 weeks in our hit Wired for Love Online Couples Retreat.
Therapist Training
Licensed and pre-licensed clinicians can train in Stan’s method: A Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy® (PACT).
The Win-Win Couple
Ready for a happier relationship? In this fun, quick, and effective online course, Stan and Tracey give you seven quick and practical exercises you can try with your partner today. Each exercise is demonstrated by a real-life couple and will help you learn how to avoid and resolve conflict with speed and mutual reward.
In just one hour, you will be able to…
- Both feel satisfied after a fight.
- Resolve disagreements faster.
- Deal with your partner better under stress.
Work with Stan and Tracey Live
The Wired for Love Online Workshop is an exclusive opportunity to work with Stan and Tracey live in a small group. Over the course of eight weekends, you’ll join Stan, Tracey, and a handful of other couples to go deep into building a secure-functioning relationship.
You’ll learn to:
- Establish a nurturing two-person system
- Understand how your brain works in a relationship
- Acknowledge your attachment styles
- Make decision-making easier
- Fight well and repair hurt quickly
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"Invaluable for so many partners looking to reconnect and grow closer together."
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Gwyneth Paltrow
Founder and CEO of goop
"Where was Stan Tatkin when I was dating? I highly recommend Wired for Dating to anyone who is ready for a secure-functioning relationship. Tatkin addresses the scientific, psychobiological, neurobiological, and intricate ways of the nervous system within the realm of dating, and does so in an utterly readable, practically applicable, wise, and entertaining way."
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Alanis Morissette
Artist & Activist
"Reading Stan Tatkin’s book makes you want to be in therapy with him. With intense and fearless clarity, he takes you into the trenches of the combative human brain and shows you how to make love, not war."
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Esther Perel
LMFT, author of The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity
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Books by Stan Tatkin, PsyD, LMFT
Relationships Are Hard, But Why?
Stan Tatkin at TEDx
Relationships are hard. But what if it's not you or them or sex, money or even who picks up the socks. What if there is a far more primitive reason?
In this talk, relationship expert Stan Tatkin explores why we fight from the perspective of neuroscience – and how to give your relationship a fighting chance.
What is PACT?
Stan Tatkin, PsyD, LMFT, and Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, PhD, AMFT, founded The PACT Institute to train couples in Stan’s neuroscience-based method of couple therapy.
Developed by Stan, a Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy® (PACT for short) is a polytheoretical integration of attachment theory, developmental neuroscience, arousal regulation, and other methods.
PACT has a reputation for effectively treating the most challenging couples. For over 20 years, thousands of couple therapists have been trained in PACT methodology, bringing secure functioning to tens of thousands of couples.
PACT teaches and promotes secure-functioning principles and skills in every corner of the world and to individuals and families in addition to couples. PACT is constantly advancing the field of couple therapy into the scientific and cultural vanguard and increasing therapists' fund of knowledge.
The PACT Institute provides trainings, workshops, continuing education, and community plus an active directory of PACT therapists and archive of print and recorded resources for certified therapists and students.
Learn More About PACT Training